Friday, June 29, 2012

Resolutions #2: When’s the best time …


It’s typical to hear resolutions mentioned just before the month that starts with the letter “J.” Yes, those pesky little words we all spout and vow to follow.

Within a couple of weeks, heck days, these precious words are often out of sight and out of mind. Why does this happen to a majority of people’s resolutions?

Consider that the lists of words are put together during a very busy season: celebrating the various holidays with gatherings & parties, special dinners, baking, making & sending cards, cleaning & holiday decorating of the home, buying, sending & receiving gifts, church activities, employer sponsored functions, employer’s community charity activities, etc.; dealing with depression or anxiety can accompany the dark gloomy days of winter or any interaction with undesirable family members; and possibly your job may involve year-end and year-beginning financial or tax related duties, finalizing projects, etc.

Why are resolutions tied to the calendar year? Could they coincide with a fiscal year? If so, then look at June and July. They are often the end and beginning, respectfully, of the fiscal year. It may still be a very busy time of the year: Memorial Day, graduations, Flag Day, weddings, Independence Day – just to name a couple of happenings. Yet, this time of year has something that doesn’t accompany the traditional resolution time period – sun and warmer weather!!!

So enjoy the warm rain and set resolutions!

(To be continued in Resolutions #3…)

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Resolutions #1: Must one follow the parade …

January seems to be “blogging month for resolutions.” Many are posted by what I’d call young’uns since they are dealing with issues related to children, work, time commitments, family, gardening, hobbies, activities, in-laws, etc. and their goals numbers are in double digits. They parade wish lists they hope  to accomplish while not sharing if they fulfilled the previous year’s list.

As I read some of these articles I must admit they did get me to thinking – what are my goals for the coming year? I didn’t really have any fulfilled goals for the last couple of years except for one – get past the next hurdle and survive. Health issues first for me and then my husband overtook any goals I’d had.  

At first I felt compelled to create a list of resolutions but then I allowed other things to fill my time and I procrastinated. So now what should I do. It’s June!

(To be continued in Resolutions #2...)